I spent a lot of time on the phone today with\u00a0another\u00a0thrown away wife. \u00a0She is in the throes of asset distribution, and calls me when she it trying to keep the emotion out and logic in. \u00a0I remember those days. \u00a0I remember the emotional conflict within my soul, because I was feeling every emotion on the list and couldn’t think straight. \u00a0She’s doing better than she realizes, though, better than I did.<\/p>\n
I made up my mind years ago that I would help women any way I can when they are in this terrible place, and each time it makes me think about how human we all are, and how some of us are happily driven by urges, rather than by intelligent, sensible thinking. \u00a0What separates us from animals is our higher brain functions, the ones that make us NOT animals and therefore not subject to control by urges (one would hope). \u00a0In other words, men, we are NOT animals. \u00a0You are not an animal and by God you don’t get to have it both ways, not with smart women. \u00a0Grow up. \u00a0Have some pride and self respect. \u00a0Be worthy of the women you set out to destroy.<\/p>\n
If you listen to pure science rhetoric, or philosophical rhetoric, you hear that men have a natural urge to plant their ‘seed’. \u00a0That sentiment makes me want to puke, because it’s an excuse. \u00a0Men have an urge. Oh boo hoo. \u00a0So do dogs. \u00a0So do birds; so do cats; so do snakes. \u00a0And here’s another clue for you. \u00a0Women have an URGE too, to nurture, to seek out the strongest specimens, to mate with the fittest and THEN, wait for it…to move on to ANOTHER fine specimen. \u00a0Oh yeah. \u00a0That’s OUR urge. \u00a0Once we reproduce with a man we’re “naturally” done with that guy. \u00a0Our sexual attraction to that guy fades NATURALLY, and we have the “urge” to move on to the next specimen that trips our trigger. \u00a0It’s to keep variety in the gene pool. \u00a0Oh you know I’m right. \u00a0How many married men whine about how they’re not ‘getting any’. \u00a0It’s all natural guys! \u00a0Just following our urges. You know, like you do.<\/p>\n
SO. \u00a0Hello men, women have URGES too. \u00a0But many of us actually control them so we can keep on washing your clothes and cooking your meals and LOVING you for more than just the process of reproduction. \u00a0Oh, and just so you know? \u00a0The “planting of the seed” urge is FOR reproduction; it’s not to make you feel good. \u00a0It feels good so<\/em> you will reproduce. \u00a0I know; you couldn’t care less.<\/p>\n What I’m getting at here is that while many people do not believe in monogamy, it IS possible, but it involves intelligent control of “urges” on BOTH sides. \u00a0In other words, keep your pants on and stop trolling around for extra-marital sexual stimulation. \u00a0OR STOP ASKING WOMEN TO MARRY YOU. \u00a0It’s that simple! \u00a0If you want to be with a gazillion women (fat chance) then stay single. \u00a0And this is a waste of time because the serial cheaters want two things: to feel good and to take your life away from you.<\/p>\n And here’s an interesting tidbit. \u00a0Men who got you to marry them so they could own you? \u00a0They will not sustain their “charm” when the lust subsides and life settles in. \u00a0And it’s that ‘charm’ that made you choose them, be attracted to them. \u00a0So they turn off the charm and what happens? \u00a0Listen. You can hear married men whining. \u00a0But it’s not about them. It’s about both. \u00a0The animals don’t want ‘both’, don’t get it, never will get it. \u00a0Ya gotta learn how to spot the dogs, the parasites.<\/p>\n Men who throw away women because they are serial cheaters…too nice a term…KNOW they are wrong, that what they are doing is hurting someone who loved them, but they need good women to give them a sense that THEY are good. \u00a0And ultimately they are actually looking for a mommy. \u00a0Sorry guys. \u00a0True. \u00a0They are stunted psychologically and they need a mommy to take care of them and to blame for all of their bad behavior. \u00a0With these guys, if you know what to look for you can spot the boy in man clothing. \u00a0And you can determine their psychological age. I met a ten year old seventy year old recently. \u00a0Kid you not. \u00a0Was ten when he was ten, was ten when he was seventy, will be ten when he dies. \u00a0And boy did he hate me when he knew I saw the ‘real’ him. \u00a0It was actually kind of funny.<\/p>\n Cheater men get to attach their sorry butts to good women and hang on until they destroy every good thing in that woman’s life…before they throw her away. \u00a0They know they will do it before they do, they know it while they are doing it, and they know it when they cheat and turn on their wife. \u00a0They know, and they do it anyway. \u00a0And society lets them get away with destroying us financially. \u00a0Because they do that too. It’s part of their game. \u00a0That’s why SO many women who owned their own homes and were financially secure wind up homeless, scrambling to try to find a place again. \u00a0Steam is coming out of my ears. \u00a0The woman I talked with today is desperately trying to keep her home! \u00a0And the cheater is heartless and trying to hurt her MORE. Which is what they do. \u00a0It’s just what they do.<\/p>\n So listen up women. \u00a0Please pay attention to these guys and be smart about things. \u00a0Learn about how they spend their spare time (is it trolling for sex online or otherwise, for example). \u00a0See if they value you for more than an orifice. \u00a0See if they EVER care how you feel or here’s a good one….what you THINK about things. \u00a0Why did their previous marriage fail? \u00a0Here’s the answer: \u00a0They cheated. \u00a0Don’t sell your house. \u00a0Don’t give them money. \u00a0Don’t pay their bills. \u00a0CALL THE EX and get her side of the story. \u00a0If their hobby is their computer? \u00a0You know what I’m going to say. \u00a0And remember, two of the main characteristics of these guys is charm and the ability to manipulate you.<\/p>\n Relationships between human beings are complex, difficult and beautiful. \u00a0Relationships between human women and male dogs? \u00a0IMPOSSIBLE. \u00a0I don’t care what scientists say about seed planting. It’s an excuse for men to behave like dogs. \u00a0Don’t buy it. If women can control our urges, so can men. \u00a0Period. \u00a0Otherwise, it’s easy. \u00a0Stay single. \u00a0This is not rocket science.<\/p>\n I hear that it takes ten hears to come out of this valley. \u00a0You’ve heard me say that before. \u00a0God, I hate it that I’m only in year six. \u00a0But it does get better emotionally. \u00a0It hasn’t gotten better financially, but I do feel better. \u00a0There’s hope. \u00a0But each time I touch one of my fellow thrown away wives, some of their desperation and sadness transfers to me, takes me back. \u00a0I hate it for them, wish I could take away some of their pain, make them feel better. \u00a0But it’s a solo journey and you have to walk each step one by one. \u00a0You have to walk through it and survive it. \u00a0And nobody sees this coming. \u00a0Except the creeps doing the damage. \u00a0And that’s a real shame.<\/p>\n I hear that there are good men out there. \u00a0Right now, I have serious doubts about that. \u00a0The world has changed and you’ve heard me say this too. \u00a0Women are becoming…AGAIN…objects. \u00a0Our rights are being negated again and we are going backwards in time. \u00a0All we can do is be careful whom we open our hearts to. \u00a0Because it is our hearts we are concerned with. \u00a0Men on the prowl for a host use that fact to their advantage. \u00a0So be careful and don’t sell your assets. \u00a0Don’t marry ANYBODY until you know their background. \u00a0These guys with what I call the ‘sh*#head syndrome’ are everywhere. \u00a0I can spot them from a mile away now. \u00a0They are always prowling and they ALWAYS want a wife. \u00a0It’s how they make part of their living…by taking your assets.<\/p>\n I’m watching it play out again. \u00a0And this girl does NOT deserve what she’s going through.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" I spent a lot of time on the phone today with\u00a0another\u00a0thrown away wife. \u00a0She is in the throes of asset distribution, and calls me when she it trying to keep the emotion out and logic in. \u00a0I remember those days. … Continue reading