Impossible.
I read an article on the Yahoo news feed, that a woman who killed her cheating lying husband and his cheating lying mistress is of course in prison, and was denied parole because she was assessed as still having “pent up anger” (It’s been twenty years). She has been deemed a threat to society. STILL!! Uh, somebody should let the parole board know that the anger she experienced sticks to you forever. It never goes away (clearly). We just learn how to be quiet about it. Right ladies? So either the parole board needs to learn how to deal with women like this (aka get a clue), or just sentence life without parole and be done with it! But again, we see the “get over it; move on” mentality of the clueless.
Listen, this woman was dismissed from her life. She has a RIGHT to be angry and STAY angry about that because her life was stolen from her and she will NE-VER-GET-IT-BACK. This is NOT rocket science. Anger can be a good thing if it keeps you safe from predators who hurt you. But righteous anger doesn’t make you a danger to society. Has ANYBODY watched the news lately? We need WAY more prisons if righteous anger is a jail-worthy offense. It is not. It is how we force CHANGE in this messed up society. You have to be very loud and very angry to get ANYTHING done.
As I say in my blog and said in my book, this trend of men throwing away their wives…INTO POVERTY…and getting away with it IS GOING to result in more men being killed. They are killing us by the minute. Watch the news. Oh, another missing wife and another cheating lying man on camera saying she ran off with another man. Please. Are these men really THAT stupid? Well yes they are. First of all, ONE man is enough for most of us. Why would we “run away” with another one? AND THE CHEATING LYING MURDERERS ALWAYS GET CAUGHT. And the wife is still dead. Somebody should be pissed off about this; SOCIETY should be pissed off.
Well, I say two things. First, this poor thing needs to stop throwing her anger around the prison. There comes a time to not talk about it and focus on happy things, like how to make a living at old age, and how to find a place to LIVE that’s not made of CARDBOARD. After all, the true targets of her anger are long since dead. If we were in the Middle East that wouldn’t be a crime…not for the cheating lying mistress anyway. Hell, the MEN would kill her.
And second, the only ones in danger are cheating lying men who try to hurt her. Okay, I can see how the parole board was thinking. If you consider cheating lying men part of society, as opposed to, say, scourge of the Earth, then yeah, she’s a threat. But I can promise you, this woman is not a threat. In fact, she has no idea how hard it’s going to be once she does get out. Life is no fun for women over fifty who have been thrown away. Like I said, more likely to be struck by lightning and in fact, a lightning strike would be easier and less painful. Trust me on that one.
Now, let’s assume this woman gets out in a few years. Maybe she will read my blog or my book, and realize some strategy. IF by chance she got into a relationship or had a close brush with one, let me ASSURE you, she would not choose a cheating lying LITTLE BOY; she knows what to look for now. So society is safe. And she can’t have a gun anymore anyway. She’s a felon now and everybody knows felons can’t have guns ever again.
I have to admit, the twenty year part gave me pause. I thought, God, is this never going to end? I cannot imagine me being so angry that people would view me as a threat….after twenty years. I’m formidable. I will forevermore be formidable, but I’m not a threat. Maybe the guy I ran off with his tail between his legs thinks I’m a threat. But I didn’t shoot at him. I didn’t even throw knives or rocks! I think I’m okay on that. We’ll see how it goes as time goes by. I would enjoy chucking some rocks though. I mean, it’s only been six years for me. I’m a good aim too. I bet I could knock a lying cheat off his feet.
EVERY once in a while I get a bit sarcastic about this phenomenon, have you noticed? But what these cheating lying men do to us women is WORTHY of anger and we should have the right to go NINJA on their asses at least once without penalty. And she should be able to tell the parole board that and not have it thrown back on her. If they build a parole board of women over fifty, she’ll get out RIGHT NOW. And think about it. She’s been in prison twenty years? Her only weapon is probably her cane. Too bad about that.